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Mrs. Darling

Mrs. Darling
Mrs. Darling is the lady of what appears to be a traditionally old-fashioned household: a homemaker and doting mother and wife with her husband off working to bring home the bacon. Aspiring to be an all around domestic goddess, she focuses her energy on cooking, baking, crafting, sewing, and being the idealized 1950’s housewife. Each evening, when the house is quiet, Mrs. Darling hangs up her apron in exchange for a slave collar. She is living in a “Modern Day 1950’s M/s (Master/slave) household.” Along with her Master, known in writing as MR (Mister), she is on a mission to educate the general population about what an M/s household can really look like. She can be contacted directly at Mrs_Darling@outlook.com

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Sample Master/slave contract – Basic

Sample Master/slave contract – Basic

This is our current contract, making adjustments from our other standard version that has served us so well over the years. Over time it became ingrained in us. I knew when to kneel, how he liked me dressed, what he expected to be called. We needed something lighter, less clunky. I have made available our [...]

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Sample Dominant/submissive Contract

Sample Dominant/submissive Contract

This written contract is an excerpt from Darling Discovered:A True Story of Submission. This is my recounting of the year my husband and I began exploring Power Exchange both inside and outside of the bedroom. Feel free to use this contract as a template for what will or will not work for your relationship. I [...]

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Contracts as a Road Map to Ever-Evolving Dynamics

Contracts as a Road Map to Ever-Evolving Dynamics

The Mister and I signed on to live in a 24/7 Dominant and submissive dynamic pretty early on in our relationship. Like actually signed on to a physical line stating what we would or would not do in day to day living. I remember vividly drafting up a lengthy contract (about 6 or 7 pages) [...]

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Don’t Judge A Label By Its Cover: Dispelling Stereotypes of D/s Roles

Don’t Judge A Label By Its Cover: Dispelling Stereotypes of D/s Roles

I was recently chatting at a local BDSM coffee event with a just-made friend who made mention (as she was just meeting my husband and I for the first time) that it was quite surprising to learn that he is the Dominant one and I am the submissive one. We get this all the time, [...]

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What Should I Try Next: Like Wax Play? Try Knives!

What Should I Try Next: Like Wax Play? Try Knives!

This is a six part series all about experiencing play from the right side of the slash. It is intended to be a helpful guide for you to push yourself further in your play, to experience new things, to open your mind and body to new sensations. I want to briefly mention safety in the [...]

1 comment Posted by Mrs. Darling | Posted in: Beginner Basics
What Should I Try Next: Like Role Play? Try Medical Play!

What Should I Try Next: Like Role Play? Try Medical Play!

This is a six part series all about experiencing play from the right side of the slash. It is intended to be a helpful guide for you to push yourself further in your play, to experience new things, to open your mind and body to new sensations. I want to briefly mention safety in the [...]

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What Should I Try Next: Like Orgasm Control? Try Forced Orgasms!

What Should I Try Next: Like Orgasm Control? Try Forced Orgasms!

This is a six part series all about experiencing play from the right side of the slash. It is intended to be a helpful guide for you to push yourself further in your play, to experience new things, to open your mind and body to new sensations. I want to briefly mention safety in the [...]

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What Should I Try Next: Like Bondage? Try Mummification!

What Should I Try Next: Like Bondage? Try Mummification!

This is a six part series all about experiencing play from the right side of the slash. It is intended to be a helpful guide for you to push yourself further in your play, to experience new things, to open your mind and body to new sensations. I want to briefly mention safety in the [...]

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What Should I Try Next: Like Service-based Play? Try Serving Others

What Should I Try Next: Like Service-based Play? Try Serving Others

This is a six part series all about experiencing play from the right side of the slash. It is intended to be a helpful guide for you to push yourself further in your play, to experience new things, to open your mind and body to new sensations. I want to briefly mention safety in the [...]

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What Should I Try Next:  Like Spanking? Try Flogging

What Should I Try Next: Like Spanking? Try Flogging

This is a six-part series all about experiencing play from the right side of the slash. It is intended to be a helpful guide for you to push yourself further in your play, to experience new things, to open your mind and body to new sensations. I want to briefly mention safety in the beginning [...]

2 comments Posted by Mrs. Darling | Posted in: Beginner Basics
31 Days of Submissive Journaling: Day 24 – Scene Reports: How they can Empower Your Playtime

31 Days of Submissive Journaling: Day 24 – Scene Reports: How they can Empower Your Playtime

Today I want to talk about scene reports: what they are, how to begin writing them, and most importantly, how they can aid and empower your playtime. I have only had one scene go really bad with my Master. In all of our years of playing, in all of the trials and errors, in all [...]

How To Get Over Being Angry When Punished

How To Get Over Being Angry When Punished

Hello, I have a question. I’m having a hard time getting past just being angry when my Dom punishes me. Specifically corporal punishment. I understand what I do wrong but it is so hard to just lay there and take it as they say. I don’t want to start a conflict with Sir, I just [...]

3 comments Posted by Mrs. Darling | Posted in: Ask Anything, BDSM Fundamentals
The Thrill of Knife Play

The Thrill of Knife Play

“I learn in that very first instant the thrill of knife play. I have never encountered anything better able to make my body submit. Fast. As the sharp edge touches my jugular I am terrified to move a single millimeter anywhere on my body. I focus all my mental energy on keeping my physical body [...]

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Our Ceremony of Roses, Vow Renewal, and Re-collaring

Our Ceremony of Roses, Vow Renewal, and Re-collaring

A couple years ago, the MR and I decided to renew our wedding vows. We had been through a rocky start to our marriage and had transformed since originally marrying from a vanilla, egalitarian relationship to a kinky, Dominant and submissive one, and finally we had arrived at Master and slave. We felt at home [...]

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Advanced Orgasm Control Techniques

Advanced Orgasm Control Techniques

This is part two of my Orgasm Control Series. Catch up by reading part one; The Benefits of Orgasm Control and How to Get Started. At the end of that article I promised we would discuss advanced orgasm control techniques and touch on reconditioning. These topics are great for long-term couples living in some sort of [...]

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The 100/100 Rule: Why TPE Succeeds

The 100/100 Rule: Why TPE Succeeds

There is plenty of questioning the 24/7 TPE M/s dynamic. Is it healthy? Is it even realistically possible? I wanted to share my thoughts on why it is not only healthy and realistic in real world application, but it creates incredibly happy and successful relationships. So quickly it has become the standard and expectation of [...]

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The Benefits of Orgasm Control and How to Get Started

The Benefits of Orgasm Control and How to Get Started

from the Submissive Guide Newsletter 2-6-16 How I Came To See The Benefits I am about to do what was once upon a time unthinkable for me: praise the training that is orgasm control. Giving up control of my orgasm was one of the very first pieces of submission I offered my husband. We started [...]

3 comments Posted by Mrs. Darling | Posted in: Play and Sex
Life as a Submissive with Chronic Pain

Life as a Submissive with Chronic Pain

It’s official. I am just past six months of living with chronic pain and no end in sight. It’s still new to me but somehow, also, it’s now me. It is a part of me that I have had to adjust to, just like once upon a time I had to adjust from a vanilla world to [...]

7 comments Posted by Mrs. Darling | Posted in: Personal Growth
My Partner Is Hanging On to an Old Relationship

My Partner Is Hanging On to an Old Relationship

Hi Submissive Guide, I, and my two female subs, are involved with a sub woman who lives two hours away. She drives up to see us twice a week, on her days off. She really enjoys being with us, and I’d like to collar her. The problem is that she refuses to tell her current [...]

1 comment Posted by Mrs. Darling | Posted in: Ask Anything
In a New Relationship and Self Conscious About My Body

In a New Relationship and Self Conscious About My Body

Thank you Mrs. Darling for answering this reader’s question! Dear Submissive Guide, I’m hoping you can offer some advice to a newbie.  I’ve met a Dom online, we had a first date (just lunch) and will be meeting again shortly to negotiate a contract. I have never ever done this before.  I’m overweight and over [...]

4 comments Posted by Mrs. Darling | Posted in: Ask Anything, Relationships
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