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lunaKM

lunaKM
lunaKM has been a full-time slave in an M/s relationship for over 10 years. She is the founder and editor of Submissive Guide. Learn more about her here and connect with her on lunaKM.me, Twitter, Google+, FetLife.

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Ask lunaKM – What Should I Expect from My Dominant?

Ask lunaKM – What Should I Expect from My Dominant?

Luna, what is reasonable to expect from a dominant in exchange for submission and service? I realize everyone is different, but when a sub is not being financially supported and is doing household care and management, handling the everyday paperwork of bill paying, handling home repair calls, etc.; assuming her Dom is loving, caring, what else [...]

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[Freebie] Entering the BDSM and D/s Community

[Freebie] Entering the BDSM and D/s Community

Kayla Lords had an excellent series on Submissive Guide awhile ago about Entering the BDSM and D/s communities and I wanted to put it together for you all in one place. Download it today!

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Do You Like Freebies? Support Submissive Guide on Patreon and Be Rewarded!

Do You Like Freebies? Support Submissive Guide on Patreon and Be Rewarded!

Support me on Patreon! It’s no secret that keeping this site going costs money and while my passion for educating and supporting the BDSM community have not wavered, the income needed to continue to grow this site is on the rise. I have so many hopes and dreams and goals for Submissive Guide and I [...]

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Every Good Conversation Starts with Good Listening

Every Good Conversation Starts with Good Listening

from the Submissive Guide Newsletter 9/24/16 “The biggest communication problem is we do not listen to understand. We listen to reply.” Submissive Guide was started not to just share what I know, it is also, at least for me, a way to continue to learn by talking out my struggles and answering the questions presented to [...]

1 comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Newsletter Archive, Relationships

Submissive Guide Takes a Holiday

From everyone here at Submissive Guide, including myself, my contributor team, KnyghtMare, my Master and the guy behind the site and server I want to wish you a very happy holidays. With every holiday, the site takes a break and I wanted to let you know that while we spend time with friends and family, [...]

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Simply Service e-Zine from November 2005

Simply Service e-Zine from November 2005

Today’s look back on an amazing e-zine is from November 2005. While this newsletter is no longer being produced, much of the content is still relevant so download it today and check it out! Here’s what’s in this issue: November 2005 Download Now! My Journey by slavedebbie Community Unity by Master Kalan Declutter 101 by Tante [...]

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The Submissive Blues – Submissive Meditation Monday

The Submissive Blues – Submissive Meditation Monday

I’m devoting this Monday to meditation, reflection, and devotion to submission. I hope to select topics that will get you thinking differently about some part of your life or submission and then just maybe grow a little bit further. If you have ideas for topics that might work for a Meditation Monday, please email me. My personal submission has been in [...]

5 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Personal Growth
Must I Always Wait for My Dominant to Tell me What to Do?

Must I Always Wait for My Dominant to Tell me What to Do?

from the Submissive Guide Newsletter 9-10-16 The topic for this article came to me from a reader survey I did over a year ago where I asked you what was most pressing to your at that moment and this question, “must I always wait for my Dom to tell me what to do?” came up. [...]

1 comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Beginner Basics, Newsletter Archive
Time’s Almost Up! Get Your Submissive’s Advent Calendar Before They Are Gone!

Time’s Almost Up! Get Your Submissive’s Advent Calendar Before They Are Gone!

In just 3 days the Submissive’s Advent Calendar will no longer be available. Don’t miss your chance to enjoy peace and joy through submission this holiday season with 24 days of activities. It’s good for single and collared submissives of all types. Something this special can’t last forever. Since this is a holiday ebook, I’m [...]

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[Freebie] Behind Closed Doors: BDSM with Kids in the Home

[Freebie] Behind Closed Doors: BDSM with Kids in the Home

This month’s free report is a compilation of essays from Submissive Guide about parenting and BDSM, children in the home and navigating quiet play and so many other concerns about being parents and also in a D/s relationship. I hope you enjoy it. Download Now!

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Solo-Coaching – Tearing Down Old Defensive Behaviors

Solo-Coaching – Tearing Down Old Defensive Behaviors

from the Submissive Guide Newsletter 8-13-16 We’ve all probably uttered this phrase a time or two when having a heated conversation with a loved one, “you’re becoming defensive.” From the time we are born, we learn defensive mechanisms that are meant to protect us from pain and trauma. A child’s first defense is to cry, [...]

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9 Books on BDSM and D/s I’ve Read More Than Once (They’re THAT Good!)

9 Books on BDSM and D/s I’ve Read More Than Once (They’re THAT Good!)

from the Submissive Guide Newsletter 7/9/16 When I started exploring BDSM and D/s relationships in 2003 there weren’t a lot of resources available. Those that were available were considered bibles of BDSM, essential reading for those who wanted books to read. (Which seems self-serving since they were the only resources, of  course people suggested reading [...]

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Limited Time Offer – Pick up The Submissive Advent Calendar NOW!

Limited Time Offer – Pick up The Submissive Advent Calendar NOW!

You’ve been asking for this since the first series on the blog 4 years ago and now I’m able to say that I’m proud to release the Submissive Advent Calendar as an ebook! I’ve worked with kallista to make a beautiful ebook full of suggestions to make your holiday season just a bit more focused [...]

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[Freebie] Writing a D/s Contract

[Freebie] Writing a D/s Contract

Today I’m sharing with you all the information I know about D/s contracts, from the whys and hows to the minute details of what happens once it’s signed. I also include an example contract for you to customize your own. Download it Now!

8 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Relationships
It’s November Which Means Nanowrimo and the Annual Ebook Sale!

It’s November Which Means Nanowrimo and the Annual Ebook Sale!

This November I’m going to try to write 50,000 words in one month and draft my very first book! That’s right, a real, going to print someday, book! I’m nervous and excited and hopefully I’ll do it! Nanowrimo stands for National Novel Writing Month and a ton of people will be doing the same thing. [...]

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31 Days of Submissive Journaling – Day 31: Q&A, Resources and Further Reading

31 Days of Submissive Journaling – Day 31: Q&A, Resources and Further Reading

Well, the month is over and I hope you learned about submissive journaling and how to open up by writing! I had a great time putting this series together for you but I know I probably missed some of the things you wanted to know! I’ll also include some great journaling resources and links around [...]

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31 Days of Submissive Journaling: Day 30 – What Have You Learned?

31 Days of Submissive Journaling: Day 30 – What Have You Learned?

We are nearly to the end of the Submissive Journaling series here on Submissive Guide. This month has been chock full of tips, tricks, and how-tos for journaling and I hope you have picked up some good ideas for your own journaling needs. So, this is where I ask you what you thought of the [...]

31 Days of Submissive Journaling: Day 29 – Social Networking Best Practices

31 Days of Submissive Journaling: Day 29 – Social Networking Best Practices

Facebook, FetLife, LinkedIn, Twitter, Ning, Digg, MeetUp, blogs, Instagram, KIK, etc.,  — the number of social networking sites and tools is exploding. Social networking is the killer app of the Internet for everyone. Such sites have become links to communicate with businesses, news, brands, celebrities, and friends, are a way to find  your next job or the [...]

31 Days of Submissive Journaling: Day 28 – Quotes: Inspiration Leads to Motivation

31 Days of Submissive Journaling: Day 28 – Quotes: Inspiration Leads to Motivation

When I first started journaling (on an online blog) I loved sharing quotes that I liked. They touched me in some way or reminding me of how I was feeling at the time. Whatever the case may be for why you like a quote; quotes inspire us, they give us a tidbit of thought and [...]

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31 Days of Submissive Journaling: Day 27- Brain Dump: Shaking Off Toxic Emotions

31 Days of Submissive Journaling: Day 27- Brain Dump: Shaking Off Toxic Emotions

One of the main ways I’ve used my personal blog for years is as a brain dump. A brain dump is a method of releasing all the clutter that’s in your head at the time. Whether that be a rant or a moment of stress or a way to sort out intense emotions. Submissive Journaling [...]

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