lunaKM

Hi folks! I had planned a video post for today but I’m still getting over a cold and am coughing quite frequently so that wouldn’t work out too well for a video. I’ll record it when I’m feeling better. In the meantime, I wanted to remind you that I will be in Des Moines, IA [...]

One of the things that people love most about this site is gaining new knowledge and viewpoints.  I have taken it upon myself to organize a day to take place once a month that will encourage bloggers to challenge themselves and explore their submissive choices! Read all the important guidelines  and FAQ on the Blog Hop [...]

I believe the second kinky activity introduced to me after spanking was flogging. Since then I’ve had a love/love relationship with it. Flogging is when a top uses a multi-tailed whip to strike in a swinging motion, often times rhythmically. The material that the flogger is made of varies as much as the sensation. Suede is [...]

Hi folks, I’m taking a break from writing for a bit. I’ve been writing at least 3 times a week for 3 years. I’m online wasting time too much these days. Things at home have suffered because of my intense focus online. Master has asked me to realign my priorities and this I must listen. [...]

All this month we have showcased a more humble, submissive way to verbally present yourself to your Dominant and in public. This concludes the series with a look back on what was covered and some last minute thoughts. Introduction Addressing Individuals Personal Introductions Asking a Question How to Apologize Answering in the Positive Answering in [...]

From the Submissive Guide Newsletter 2-4-12 If you can’t get out to munches in your community or conventions held around the world the next best thing is a website focused on kink education. I have nothing but praise for Kink Academy and the quality educators and topics that they cover on Kink Academy.  Here at Submissive [...]

The last post in this series is not about speech but how we say things that speak a lot about our mood, impression of the situation and so much more – our tone.  Tone is also something precarious because you can be misunderstood by your tone alone. How many times have you had to reiterate [...]

It’s been a pretty busy week for Submissive Guide. Instead of giving you some personal news I’d like to share what changes the site has gone through and what’s planned for the near future. We have migrated the site to Kinky-Blogging blog hosting. This is to afford KnyghtMare ease of maintenance with only one set of [...]

If you get 2 submissives in a room together and it’s very likely that a discussion will take place about their Dominant partners. We sure love to talk about them, don’t we? I can’t tell you how many times I’ve talked about KnyghtMare at the Submissive Forum. It’s usually with pride and love that he [...]

Think about the last time you went out to eat or stood in line at a check out counter. Do you remember looking at the service person who waited on you? Did you smile at them and greet them or did you stay on your cell phone and not even acknowledge them as they served [...]

Welcome everyone to the Submissive Guide Blog Hop Challenge (SGBHC)!  I am so thrilled to see you here!  First, the challenge… Submissive Challenge #7 7 Things You Have Learned From A Dominant About Submission You don’t have to be in a relationship for this one but it helps if you know or at least talk to [...]

I’ve mentioned several times of holding meet-ups for Submissive Guide. I’m still planning on doing that as KnyghtMare and I begin travelling for events and conventions. In fact, I’m announcing the first Submissive Guide Meetup right now! Submissive Guide Meetup What: Submissive Guide Meetup – meet me and other Submissive Guide fans for coffee, conversation [...]

This is just a quickie post, but I’ve had a suggestion come in via email that I’d like some input on. Someone asked me if I (SubmissiveGuide.com) had notebooks, pens or coffee mugs with logos or submissive quotes on them that they could buy to support Submissive Guide. If Submissive Guide had products available from [...]

Sometimes we forget that speaking in a submissive manner could include moments we don’t know who is on the other end of the conversation. Answering the phone or the door is a process that has gotten far to sloppy lately. I hope that with this advice we can begin to correct that. At least at [...]

Play sessions are a less common happening in the KnyghtMare household lately but this weekend we had a wonderful session that he says was one of the best ever. While sex always has an element of exchange of power and pain, it’s great to connect in a sadist/masochist way once in a while and hopefully [...]

I am doing some website maintenance tonight through tomorrow. You may experience times where the site is down during this maintenance. Please bear with me as I work to improve and keep this site up to date code wise. Thank you. –lunaKM

One of the most valuable things that I think any submissive should know is how to express gratitude in more than one way. I know I’ve taken a lot for granted when I was first starting out and exploring kink with anyone who was interested. Never once did I say thank you for it. I [...]

In everyone’s daily exchanges with people there comes a time we will need to interrupt another person or persons to pass on information. For a polite and graceful submissive you should endeavor to not interrupt someone needlessly but to find an appropriate time to step into their presence. Oftentimes I am sent as a messenger  for my [...]

Just as saying yes or answering in the affirmative can be done many ways, saying no has many ways you can say it also. When a submissive gives a negative answer it can be a simple “no” or it can be as elaborate as the Dominant wishes. Some Dominants do not allow the submissive to [...]

It’s Tax Day here in the US, which means (since it falls on a Sunday) that you have until midnight Tuesday night to file your taxes or they are late! Extra days rock when you procrastinate. We mailed ours just yesterday and now we are even poorer (self-employment sucks for taxes). How did you do? [...]