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One response to “Ask Submissive Guide – My Dominant Says and Does Things I Didn’t Agree To”

  1. Gina

    Just my 2 cents.

    I 100% agree with Kayla Lords in her advice to this individual. While reading the letter and Kayla’s response, one alarm bell kept tolling in my head. This wasn’t mentioned in the letter seeking advice, but I feel it is worth mentioning…if he is this way now (going back on what was agreed to in the beginning), how is he going to be with safe words? Yes, I know in these letters we only get half of the picture, but from this half of the story, I fear that he would not respect safe words after a period of time if at all.

    I wish her all the best of luck in the world and that if she ends this relationship that she finds as wonderful Dom as I have.

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