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lunaKM has been a full-time slave in an M/s relationship for over 10 years. She is the founder and editor of Submissive Guide. Learn more about her here and connect with her on lunaKM.me, Twitter, Google+, FetLife.

2 responses to “[Video Post] The Evolution of Submission or Why I’m Glad I’m Not the Submissive I Was Ten Years Ago”

  1. Keith Smith

    Thank you lunaKM for your post “I am not the submissive I was 10 Years ago”. I can identify with that. I have discovered my submissive journey to be truly amazing. There are many things that I have discovered about myself. Yes I am still a masochistic bottom which I was 10 years ago. I have discovered that I am submissive. I would call myself a masochistic submissive. Currently I have a very lovely very experienced Dom who plays with me, usually once each month. The next time should be tomorrow. I love meeting with other kinky people, especially other submissives. The last such meeting was 3 days ago. Some things have taken me a very long time to learn. One of these things was accepting that truly I am masochistic. I started off by trying to tell the Dom who currently plays with me that I was not a masochist. She smiled at me and quietly told me that I am. Then I shifted to I am not strongly masochistic. Then I shifted to saying that I am not as masochistic as she thinks I am. Each time her response was the same. She was right all along. She could see things in me of which I was not fully aware.

  2. sarahbebefille

    Thanks you so very much Luna for that heartfelt post. I know you said you weren’t feeling well that day, but what you said spoke to me….gave me hope. It’s been a two year journey for me so far, a very short time compared to your journey, so I am always looking for new understanding.

    Just hearing you say that you changed so much, that you have to allow that change helped immensely. I have many fears and the word “selfish” as you said rang very true for me. I struggle with what it is to truly serve. I know it’s inside me because the love I have for this man is so incredible and overwhelming, but finding in myself the true submissive….or even slave or pet if that is where things turn for me….this is what I seek. Thank you again for your words of encouragement.

    I have just started my own blog after keeping my thoughts only on Fetlife. I felt it was time to expand and share with others in a new way. You are a true inspiration in many ways.

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