I'm sure you have addressed this... But would you be willing to give some advice on sub drop in long distance relationships? I have been with my Dom 7 months and he is wonderful, amazing, and perfect at after care, but there still is the emotional sub drop after play. Thank you for any advice you can give!
You're right, I have talked about sub drop before. I'll start you off with the previous articles. Keep in mind they can help even if you are in a long distance relationship.
- Research Page: Sub Drop
- The Emotional Side of Sub Drop
- Feeling Down After a Play Session? by moonlight
- Caring for Yourself After a Scene: Self Aftercare
- Free Printable - Creating a Drop Kit
- Some of the Best Kept Secrets to Sub Drop Recovery
- Chat Night Transcript from Sub Space and Sub Drop Talk
- Twitter Chat Transcript of Dealing with Dom/sub Drop #domsubchat
- Kink and Mental Health: Can "sub drop" be a trigger? by Rayne Millaray
- Sub Drop Madness - Submissive Meditation Monday
And better yet, andyiccee wrote about coping with sub drop in a long distance relationship! This post will definitely help you in your particular situation.
by andyiccee
Whatever you feel, remember you aren't alone and you can get through it. Long distance relationships are very taxing, even more so when you do have a face to face element to it. Remember to take care of yourself and allow yourself to feel lonely and sad as long as you know it's temporary. Use the techniques in the articles above to find your own aftercare kit and steps to return to your normal self. Good luck.