Mentoring, self-help and submissive exploration

Tequila Rose is a full time slave who recently relocated to Germany to be with her Master. She has been in the lifestyle since her early twenties and continues to learn more about the lifestyle and being a slave. She now spends her days learning her new language and wandering the streets of Dortmund. You can contact her via email:

5 responses to “Finding Your Tribe-The Importance of the Kink Community”

  1. guitargurl

    20% cooler! Haha! I love it. :)

  2. Dee

    Thanks for this! Yes, the RIGHT support makes all the difference! I am searching for a community that is both kinky and positive. I have had little success and find many facets of the community to be dark and somewhat negative.
    Some of what I do:
    Listen to kink podcasts, research speakers on the topic, read and engage on fetlife, attend submissive support groups (still looking for a good one), read and engage with Luna and others here on Submissive Guide (amazing site, best stumble upon in ages!!!).
    Other suggestions please.

  3. tangledchaos

    I love this, but it is something I struggle with the most. I read a lot of posts on here and on Fetlife but I am so incredibly shy its hard to connect with people sometimes!

  4. martha-k

    Hey tangledchaos… I’m kinda new to this whole thing, and am also very reserved when it comes to sharing things with others, but am lucky to have one good friend in my city who’s a sub and is helping me enormously. If I can offer my own services to you as an internet friend I’d be honoured. Seriously… happy to be an email buddy :-)) x

  5. Landmine Spring

    Thank you for posting this, you have really put your finger on the pulse of what has been missing from my life (and by extension, my M-type’s life) since we relocated to the suburbs.
    Although, my own experience on the Fetlife message boards were not as positive as yours, lol, I did make many good IRL friends from their local groups (where I used to live, at least … here, not so lucky).

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