hi Luna, I am new to this sub world.  Very interested yes.. My question is what do you do when you run out of spit in your mouth for all the blow jobs he wants? My  mouth gets dry bc of meds and i am unsure how to handle this. TY

I did have to chuckle as I've never really had this problem personally but I can sympathize! I'm sure that if he wants that many blow jobs he's going to have to make adjustments so that you can please him. Since you are on medications that reduce your saliva production you'll have to have a substitute on hand. Keep a glass of water next to the bed to rehydrate as you go, and invest in flavored lube. Not only will it help your hands glide over him more easily but it will also make oral easier.

Hello luna!!

my question seems very silly to me, but i really do need advice. i have no friends in the lifestyle, so i don't have anyone to talk to besides Master. He and i have talked about it, but He said He can't really offer me any help. i am having problems with nipple play. Master loves it, and while i don't love it (yet) i do like it. But my nipples are very sensitive and it hurts a lot. Do you have any advice on how i can get over this hurdle and, for lack of a better word, "toughen up" my nipples? Thanks for any advice you can offer!!

Unfortunately it's not something you can do. Toughening up your nipples, like for breastfeeding as an example, is an old wives tale. You just can't do that. My suggestion is have a way of telling him that you've reached a limit with the nipple play without stopping play. He has to learn what will work for you and what joy and pleasure he can get from what you can handle. There's no reason to push yourself past a physical limitation like this unnecessarily. It's possible that you'll adjust, but it's also possible that you won't. It's not a hurdle to get over, it's a learning experience. You've learned your nipples are very sensitive and you can't handle the intense play he likes on them. So he needs to back off a bit and get his pleasure in some other way.

I have the opposite issue. My nipples have to be played with roughly in order for me to feel it. Soft gentle touches and even my own nipples hardening I just can't feel. It's like they are numb.  KnyghtMare would love for me to be able to respond more to the light touches but since I can't he adapts.