How does one BDSM sext? I'm a submissive who's never been in a relationship before the long distance D/s one I'm currently in... so I've never sexted and suddenly we're doing (virtual) suspension, bondage, and whippings! What do I say? Apart from "I moan", "I submit" and "I obey"... what CAN I say?

Sexting is an art in expressing yourself well in fantasy. Someone with a really good imagination and ability to describe things will be good at sexting. Cybersex, in general, is about creating a story of sex or play between the people writing.

Use your imagination and describe the scene, from what things might feel or smell like, how you are responding, the thoughts going through you head and how sexually turned on you are.

A good way to practice is to turn on some porn, mute it and then describe what is going on as detailed as possible. Don’t forget to describe facial gestures, how they are positioned, what they might be saying to one another, the sounds that are going on or what they are thinking. Develop a backstory if that helps you.

Cyber sex is all in the mind. Reading the fantasy is one thing, participating in it is another. Engage your partner with details that will get you both hot and bothered.