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lunaKM has been a full-time slave in an M/s relationship for over 10 years. She is the founder and editor of Submissive Guide. Learn more about her here and connect with her on, Twitter, Google+, FetLife.

4 responses to “4 Things You Should Not Put Up With Just Because He’s a Dominant”

  1. Jamie

    Thanks for posting this, Luna. I’ve sort of been lurking on this website for a few months, reading a lot, and this really spoke to me. I recently had a one on one with my Dom about number four. Wish I had come across this sooner, I would have been able to articulate myself a lot better.

  2. Kyle

    Dom here…
    Really like your postings and articles Luna. I agree with “not putting up with” selfishness and dishonesty. There has to be total communication, honesty, openness, and respect. There is no honor in any relationship for ignoring or betraying your partner.
    Like Jamie, I have read a lot here for the past 10 days and decided to comment.

  3. sluttykitty

    Hi Luna, I am a sub. With the same feelings. The Master I adored and have come to love, I feel is only smooth talking me. It hurts. But my gut instinct keeps telling me he is. It’s one of the hardest thing I had to was to let him go. It hurts so much and I still have a hard time shaking that lost feelings. But I know I can’t and don’t want to make someone truly want me for more than a sexual plaything. I always look forward to your articles. Thank you

  4. gingersub86

    Thank you, so much, for this… the past few days have been so difficult and i was starting to think i was crazy! my relationship with Master is fairly new. in the beginning, He was so attentive and interacted with me regularly via text (we live a substantial distance apart). i was told to supply Him with my availability, given tasks to complete each day and even dietary and fitness requirements. within the past few days, His communication has been almost non-existent. i say good morning and goodnight everyday, and normally get a response to those texts but anything in between is not responded to until late evening when He said He had a busy day. i, literally, wait by the phone all day for any sign of interest from Him. i wish He would just say that He no longer wishes to have me. it breaks my heart because i have begun to fall for Him and i don’t want to start over…

    thanks again for the wake up call…


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