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lunaKM has been a full-time slave in an M/s relationship for over 10 years. She is the founder and editor of Submissive Guide. Learn more about her here and connect with her on, Twitter, Google+, FetLife.

3 responses to “What to Do When Punishment Starts to Feel Good”

  1. gingersnap1128

    Pain never worked on me either. My Master knew from the beginning of O/our relationship it was better to deny me something rather than physical punishment. It only takes something taken away that is dear to me and my actions change quickly.

  2. pain is pleasure

    Dear lunaKM,

    i too have the same problem. i love pain, and have been begging to be flogged, spanked, scratched, or slapped almost everyday. It is a true relief, and the fact that my wife is willing to take the time to give me the pain truly makes me feel loved and special. Plus pain just plain feels spec-tactual, and takes me to a space that is mediative.

    Still the fact that pain has become so pleasurable is something that does need to resolved. Is there any other advice that you can offer? It would be greatly appreciated.


    pain is pleasure

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