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lunaKM has been a full-time slave in an M/s relationship for over 10 years. She is the founder and editor of Submissive Guide. Learn more about her here and connect with her on lunaKM.me, Twitter, Google+, FetLife.

One response to “Struggling in Submission: Introspection on the Fight to Improve Yourself”

  1. Joan

    Conflict is often a sign that something is wrong, not that you are wrong. Your behaviour maybe inappropriate but your feelings of dissatisfaction need to be addressed. There has been a tremendous upheaval in your relationship, something has changed and you may not have the tools to deal with it.
    When I think about having my first child, a joyful experience, I was incredibly overwhelmed. It was my first time being a 24/7 parent. The stress was intense and compounded by uncertainty – I didn’t want to harm my child but felt I could at any given moment. I know that I miserable to live with. I was agitated and unhappy (and happy – mixed feelings). With my second child, since I hadn’t harmed my first child, I was much more relaxed. I understood many of the problems I would face an knew I could overcome them. I was still stressed and there were new problems. But all things pass and you sort it out.

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