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lunaKM has been a full-time slave in an M/s relationship for over 10 years. She is the founder and editor of Submissive Guide. Learn more about her here and connect with her on lunaKM.me, Twitter, Google+, FetLife.

One response to “Ask lunaKM – New Kink Relationship, Seeking Daddy Doms and Resources to Help Those Coming Out Kinky”

  1. withabandon

    I just wanted to add a bit for the person looking for a DD/lg relationship.

    Definitely give kinky sites a try, but I wouldn’t discount vanilla ones altogether. Just hinting at having a fetlife profile or an interest in kink should make it easier for those with similar interests to find you. I did a lot of online dating, and met most of my kinky partners on vanilla sites. On the other hand, I met my Master on Alt, a kinky dating site, and it was admittedly much easier to know right away who was interested in what.

    The main thing I wanted to say was not to discount someone whose profile doesn’t directly indicate an interest in a dd/lg dynamic. My Master wasn’t looking for a little, but when I told him what I wanted He was very open and has proved to be an amazing Daddy. I’d focus on finding someone who likes you the way you are, and who exhibits the traits you want in a Daddy. For me it was someone protective and affectionate, who enjoys setting up structure for me.
    The e-courses on here helped me a ton with defining what I was looking for in a partner, which made writing a kinky dating profile easier. :)

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