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2 responses to “Introducing BDSM to a Partner: Twitter Chat May 22, 2013 #domsubchat”

  1. FatherJon

    I’d certainly love to hear ‘how you introduce BDSM to a partner’.
    Does that mean convincing a vanilla partner of the virtues of being bound and thrashed? Even an old spanker like me has had no luck ‘turning a ‘nilla’, so to speak.
    My experiences of ‘evangelising’ have been more along the lines of – receiving cold, uncomprehending stares, sudden cut off in the blossoming friendship, or physical and other threats. To the extent that I stopped mentioning it, keeping it very secret and only known amongst a small group of like-minded perverts.
    The internet changed all that, allowing us to advertise widely, globally in a couple of cases, stating our needs and preferences and meeting women of a similar inclination. I just wish I was 20 years younger to keep it all going, continuing to enjoy the fruits of Mr Bill Gates’ labour. Ah well, twas ever thus! I’m thankful for the many small mercies ladies have bestowed on me, bending over on command as we mutually enjoyed our urge.

    FJ

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