Respectful Greetings Luna. I have a question. Currently involved/owned by a man who cant seem to focus on me long enough for us to build any kind of bond let alone any trust or relationship other then sexual, I tried to explain to him respectfully what I need in our D/s. However, It seems that he also has other women (friends)whom he says are not submissive that I found he has relations with also. I am not pleased and mentioned it to him. He gets nasty and acts like he is entitled to many...Im not getting what I need. He is spreading himself too thin and not being a quality Domme to me. Which Yes, I feel I am entitled to. I give him 100% of my Gift of Submission fully without hesitation. I am sad...Please advise. thank you, Silkworth

Silkworth,

You are absolutely right. Your needs should be met and you are validated in feeling neglected. A relationship should be open to communication. You should be able to discuss your feelings and it definitely doesn't sound like you are okay with him having other relationships on the side. It is not a Dominant's prerogative to have a ton of submissives. It sounds to me like he's playing the field and stringing you along. I know it sounds harsh but from your message, it appears you may be thinking it too.

If you aren't getting what you need then go find someone who will treat you right and use your submission to better both of your lives. Hopefully, you'll take this to heart and search for someone that you can trust and will listen to you.