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lunaKM has been a full-time slave in an M/s relationship for over 10 years. She is the founder and editor of Submissive Guide. Learn more about her here and connect with her on, Twitter, Google+, FetLife.

2 responses to “How Do I Know What I Like? I’m Brand New”

  1. Persephone

    I’ve been kinky for ages and yet earlier today someone who was only into kink a little asked me outright what I liked and I found myself at a complete loss! I think to sum up what you like is hard (I’m dating at the moment) so this and the checklist have really helped!

  2. Debbi

    That is a great checklist and I look forward to going through it thoroughly. I have very little real experience, some spanking, one non-sexual flogging to show me what it’s like, but I’ve done a lot of research and not stopping that, from books, blogs and people. Pain doesn’t turn my crank, at least not more that the above I’ve experienced, neither does humiliation or objectification. At least, in my head, which I’m shaking “nooooo”, these things don’t cause any zings! lol I guess, right now, I’m not finding it hard to say no to a lot of things and wondering when/if anything is going to garner a YES!

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