I am new to Dom/sub.  I have been in training for 4 months, My Dominant says he wants to have men pay for an hour of pleasure with me.  An hour of me granting their every wish.  I said that sounded like prostitution to me,  he said if that offended me too much I shouldn't be his submissive.  It does offend me too much.  What do I do?

Dear Anonymous,

Well, maybe He is right. You probably shouldn’t be his submissive, but not for the reason he thinks. There are Dominants out there who are in the scene for the wrong reasons. They want an excuse to abuse and use women. A good Dominant would never put their sub in jeopardy. There are some people who like the idea of ordering a sub to please others, but they must first give consent. Also, any sexual act for payment is considered prostitution and is against the law. While there are times when you might push limits and consent to things you don’t like, you should never do something dangerous or against your own better judgment. A good Dominant would never put you in that position. I recommend that you move on and find another Dominant. I am sure you can find someone who will put your well-being and safety first.

SehAnru