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4 responses to “Perspectives: Rope Bondage”

  1. brendazthoughts

    I have been uncomfortable with my body for years, I have stretch marks from having children, I am aging so gravity is setting in, I have lost weight and now have loose skin.I am new to this lifestyle, and my M. is teaching me, things. I chased him,we talk alot, he is well educated, he has a doctorate, and I am also educated…when he first told me that he was into S&M I initially laughed because I thought he was teasing me, and attempting to deter me. I told him that I liked to be held down, and to have my hair pulled. He laughed and told me I was Vanilla, I had never heard that term…we went through several what if situations, what if it doesn’t work…what will I do? Will I retaliate? at what cost…I have nothing to lose but myself, he has much to lose, professionally, and personally. He said he may lose his heart to me, and I don’t know if it was because I am so free or ??? He told me that he would do things that I may find depraved, and I told him, that I doubted he would surprise me…he took a chance, and we started kissing, I just don’t know…I have told him more about me and my life, my shortcomings than anyone, even my husband of 15 years (who has now passed away), and he has not passed judgement, he stayed …our first time together was amazing, he surprised me, our second time he told me to kneel at his side,and I did without question, I began to kiss his hand and to just rub his arm I don’t know why, but I just wanted to do everything and anything that he asked…I adore him…he had stated that he was worried about work, I wanted so much to put his heart and mind at ease. and I’m not sure but it came about that I stated I have always had poor impulse control.He said to get him some rope, and I did….he told me to first put my hands behind me, and then above me. He took me and tied me to the door in my room, He then proceeded to tie my breasts together, and to run the belt across my breasts…my nipples were so hard, and I was so excited, I could not help but to to smile, He then let me move from the door, and spanked me…I was so hot….I am hot now thinking about it…I found I couldn’t breath slowly, I knew that there would be more, and after each lash he would gently trace the line, and then kiss it. he told me to not make noise, to not scream, and I didn’t but I moaned, and I was shaking, with want for more…he asked me how I would like my last lash, soft,or hard…I wanted so much to please him, I asked for hard, and he did, he then wanted to show me what had been done, and I could see the marks in the mirror, and he kissed each mark…he left my hands tied and guided me to the bed..where he straddled me…he told me what he wanted, and I wanted so much to please him….he is on my mind now 3 days later…he told me that next time he may allow me to touch myself, but I need to learn to delay gratification, he will teach me. He says that I am distracted from my studies and will have to wait until after my exam to see him again. He said that if my grade improves I will be rewarded…and I want the reward,I am in a constant state of arousal, and its making me crazy…I don’t know if I will earn my reward…I only want to please him…

  2. mrsmuir

    I know exactly how you feel about the stretch marks! I love my daughter dearly but my stomach looks horrible and I constantly focus on it. Sir constantly tells me I’m the sexiest woman in the world and I usually get a spanking when I start the pity party. Anyway back to ropes….love love love the feeling of being tightly bound and helpless. Lucky for me Sir has a thing for ropes too ;) he just recently bought all different colors and is practicing his shibari techniques. Promises me he’s going to make me wear it under my clothes in public . He did a quick shibari on me and I was instantly wet. Oh and I highly recommend yoga. After just a few weeks I am much more flexible. Sir is very happy about that ;)

  3. Leish

    I absolutely LOVE the ropes. But i want to be more flexible to allow the different styles. Eg. The elusive elbow tie. Without losing feeling in my arms. What do i do? What training can i do to make it easier. I wanna please but am feeling like im letting him down by not being able to physically handle the tie.
    I hope that makes sense!

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