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lunaKM has been a full-time slave in an M/s relationship for over 10 years. She is the founder and editor of Submissive Guide. Learn more about her here and connect with her on lunaKM.me, Twitter, Google+, FetLife.

7 responses to “When You’re Left to Beating Yourself Up – Online SM at a Glance”

  1. brattyphoenix

    If i have learned one thing from this article it is that i messed up the first time i tried to have a master online. I mean he was just a complete creep and jerk. I should have realized it from the get go. I mean he didn’t respect me or anything about me. He didn’t care about me. This article has shown the light on what i need to do and what i shouldn’t do next time i try to have an online relationship with somebody.

  2. sub_elizabeth

    I am in an online relationship. I have to agree with all of the advice listed here. The main thing is to Communicate! Communicate! Communicate! Thanks for all the great advice LunaKM!

  3. NidalsToy

    Wonderful advice thank you. I felt silly as heck when I started inflicting the slaps, snaps and pulls at my Dominants command on cam. But as I am growing and developing in my submission, I am learning that He uses my body to meet His needs from afar and I thoroughly enjoy it. Becoming comfortable with my body has been a challenge, but He assists with that too.

  4. Icy

    And how would you know if this person online really is a good Dom and someone you can trust? How do you know that they’re not someone who’s tricking you and well, ‘bad’? It’s as hard as it is to trust people when you’re face to face. But online? It’s close to impossible. Yet starting by face to face, without some information through online relationships with your Dom is even scarier to think about. Am I that messed up?

  5. Icy

    How do you find Dom online? I mean, you don’t just come across them, do you?

    And thank you for replying.


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