My Master is quite a portly man .How can he get good penetration without hurting his feelings? That is important his weight on me can clearly crush me. He is in excess of 400 lb. He loves to mount me from above in a dominant position. I love dear Master and yet i don’t wish to hurt his feelings. I am going to help him and I shed several pounds this year but for now can you give me so suggestions?

Thank You.......me

Greetings,

This is a hard subject to cover without visuals of the anatomy in question. But even more so is how to address his mental state when it comes to this. Obviously he is going to try until he is tuckered out completely as he wants to please you, and perhaps he feels that by being on top that is the only Dominant position he has over you. But this is not so, and he will need that reassurance.  The key here is communication. Ask him why being on top appeals to him. Is it only because of the idea of Dominating over you? If it is, make suggestions on what other sexual type positions or even acts themselves would offer that power exchange. If it is a matter of reach, see if he would be willing to try a strap on, or even use a dildo while leaning over you instead of on top of you. Let him know that you can’t breathe in that position, but give him options for other positions. Honesty is the best bet here. He knows he is overweight, and it is obvious since you are reaching out that you love him and want to help any way you can, tell him that.  You never know, by coming up with other ideas to try may even spark more arousal which is always fun. Good luck, and thank you for the question, let me know how things go.

Happy Submitting,

SehAnru