hello;

i have been requested by a prospect Domme to be "fully ready for my submission" shred upon my first visit sesion.

are you able to offer ant assistence in this matter > i understand the D/s concept but she is already aware of that.

Thank you

j

J,

My first question in a situation like this is, do you know this person at all? This sends up a lot of red flags for safety as it sounds like it does for you as you seem apprehensive. The best thing to do is trust your instincts. If this is not comfortable for you, then take a step back and slow down. Ask to meet to have coffee at a public location to discuss what “Be ready to fully submit means”

I talk about communication a lot in this column and in my articles. Just because you are submissive, it does not mean that you give up your right to be safe and comfortable. Admittedly there are situations where we are not always comfortable, but we also consent to this.

I wish you the best of luck in your ventures, please be safe.

Happy Submitting,

SehAnru