Hi, I was wondering if you would be willing to talk with me about becoming a slave. Despite my obvious fetishes shown by my user name, I've never done any of this stuff before in real life. What's more, I've always been shy about sex as a subject little lone the rest. My boyfriend and I have been talking about starting a master/slave relationship with me as the slave. While this does turn me and I would like to try it, I'm not sure if it's the best decision. Your videos are the first of anything on the internet that I've found that are actually helpful but I still want to discuss my fears and questions with someone who is not involved in our relationship. Do you think you could help?

-Hypnolovergirl

Dear Hynolovergirl,

This is a huge step that you are taking and one that I would not take lightly. Some of the recommendations that I have is read, read, read, read.. I can’t say that enough. There are quite a few really good books out there about D/s and M/s relationships. Sm 101: A Realistic Introduction by Jay Wiseman, Screw the Roses, Send Me the Thorns: The Romance and Sexual Sorcery of Sadomasochism by Philip Miller and Molly Devon, Master/slave Relations: Handbook of Theory and Practice (M/s Studies Books) by Robert J. Rubel, The Compleat Slave: Creating And Living An Erotic Dominant/submissive Lifestyle by Jack Rinella and Joseph W. Bean,  and Becoming a Slave by Jack Rinella, Protocols: Handbook for the female slave by Robert J. Rubel just to name a few. Another thing that you can do is find a mentor, you can do this either online, or if you go to www.fetlife.com and you can find people in your area and ask about a local mentoring program through your local munch. A munch is a gathering of like minded people, and in this case is kinky minded.

I do hope this helps to start you on your journey.

Happy Submitting

SehAnru