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43 responses to “How to Talk to Your Dominant”

  1. Aaron Lachiondo

    Ummm not sure how you turned this in to a full whining artical. I would be pissed if you were my sub.
    Here’s how it’s broken down. You being the sub crawls on fours to the Dom. If standing knee before them, if sitting place your head in there lap to show you submission. Andbto get in their good graces. Then tell them your desire. But leave it as a sub open ended question. Makes sure you Dom has final say,cor it can get ugly fast. I say this cause I’m a switch that in 90% Dom. But all my subs have loved me. I have made my subs cum so hard from mixing disgusting acts, and appreciation to the sub.

  2. Aaron Lachiondo

    Reading these comments you people aren’t subs. You’re lazy, and want so!eone else to do the work. Your subs you do as you are told. When your Dom feels you deserve a treat he,\she will reward you. If I saw my sub posting on here behind my back she wouldn’t be rewarded for so long. Then again my sub is very obedient. Does what I say no matter what it is in an instant. Then returns with her head in my lap, or, and least on fours waiting patiently for me. In return besides sex she I rub her different body parts, and play with her hair to help her fall asleep, and show, and appreciation for her being such a good girl.

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