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March is Question Month
March 1, 2010 by lunaKM []
As so many bloggers are known to do, I am opening up this site for your questions… even the personal ones. March is the month known in a small sphere as Question Month!
If you have a question about submission, your own struggles or anything to do with BDSM this is your chance. I’ll also take personal questions about myself and you can ask questions directed at my new contributors as well. I’ll take questions until March 30th. You can post a comment on this post or email me via the form at the top of the site. I will not use your name unless you allow me to.
This should be an interesting experience. Please feel free to ask me (or Rayne, nan{SL},mrsK) anything.
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My name is lunaKM and I’m a full-time submissive in a D/s relationship. I am webslut to
Both Master and I work outside the home. I’d like to hear some tips on how to make the mental switch between work and submission.
I have responded to your question on this post: Leaving Work at the Door: How to Find the Mindset Once You Are Both Home. Thank you for asking me a question during March Question Month!
my owner frequently forgets his own deadlines, rules, etc, be them for me or for his own things. how do i help him without being a nag? i have tried setting up calendars, but he forgets to look at them.
I have replied to your question here: Helping Owner with Deadlines. Thanks so much for asking me a question!
How do you handle your serious mood swings or when something just “sets you off”?
When you go from one end of the spectrum to another – sometimes justified, sometimes not.
Normally, when i was on my own, i would just throw a fit.
Being back in a D/s relationship – that is not acceptable behavior and it’s a hard thing to start overcoming.
I admit to sometimes being a drama queen in relation to my moodswing – not something i’m proud of – and being back into a D/s relationship i need to nip that in the bud ASAP.
Suggestions?
Advice?
~cilla noir
Cilla Noir´s last blog ..Getting this day and month started…
Thanks for asking! This question has been answered in the following post:
http://www.submissiveguide.com/2010/03/diffuse-extreme-mood-swings-before-they-get-you-in-trouble/
Does one know how to obtain collars that do not look like collars..so one can be worn at all time with out so called vanilla’s asking about it…?
Rayne answered your question on the following post. Thanks for asking!
I have had a few Doms and i am in a relationship where I live with one.I didnt think I could find someone that makes me this happy but I did. The problem is I keep thinking about my first Dom that introduced me into this life. We were together for two months. I feel like I am cheating or something when I think about him but I dont want him. My Dom wants to know what im thinking and i cant tell him. How do I deal with this?
@tammy – Can I get a bit more information please? What have you been thinking about exactly? There is just too little information for me to give you advice that might work for your situation.
Ok He taught me about D/s relattionship and made me realize that I am a sub.I could talk to him about anything. We was looking to move in together.I wonder what and where he is and remember the little things he would say and do.Then i start wishing that I could talk to him.He is in the past but I cant let go but I want to.It has been long enough that I should be over him by now. I dont understand b/c i am happier than I have ever been. This is confusing and frustrating.I talk in my sleep and Im scared that I will say something I shouldnt.
tammy,
I have written a post with some advice here. Thank you for asking your question. http://www.submissiveguide.com/2010/03/are-you-cheating-on-your-dominant-with-your-ex-dominants-memory/
I am curious about what your thoughts on those who admit to participating underage is?
I have been referred to as “vanilla” for being uncomfortable with those who identify/have identified as submissives and slaves at/from a very young age. I can understand experimenting at a young age with the idea of a BDSM relationship, but for those who participate and openly admit to it, it sends up red flags for me. Especially from people who say they have known since middle school (when they are technically still children in the eyes of law). I know I have been into service forever, but I don’t mean that I have always been a submissive because of that.
I’m mostly just curious about your views on this, LunaKM.
Thanks for your question! I have answered it here:
http://www.submissiveguide.com/2010/03/what-i-think-about-underage-experimentation-and-submission/
My Sir and I only see each other once a week and we have just started out. I really want to be able to serve him over the internet. Sometimes he has me write for him but he seems to get bored with that. Is there anything I can do?
I’ve sent you an email to ask for more details as I can’t give you a proper answer with what little you’ve offered here. Look for it!