I’ve been developing a submissive code of ethics for myself to help give me long term goals and a focus. I feel it will bring about change in me that perhaps I can’t see yet. I thought I would share it here so that you can perhaps get some ideas for developing your own code of ethics.
What is a code of Ethics?
A code of ethics is a guideline of what is acceptable behavior in a chosen area of life (usually work). Personal codes of ethic are written to help focus a person in their life. They are an everyday reminder of who they are and what they believe.
How to write a code of ethics for yourself
My Code of Ethics
For myself
I will endeavor to express my needs and desires openly with Master without fear of reaction or consequences.
I will take great care about my appearance as it always reflects on Master even in vanilla settings where they do not know the dynamic exists.
Remaining healthy is very important to the health of our relationship. I will continue to work towards loosing weight and getting active until that time he feels I have reached my ultimate goal.
I will find beauty in serving Master in even the smallest things.
Seeking guidance from other more experienced submissives is acceptable and encouraged when no answers can be found elsewhere.
For Master
My body is not my own and I will offer it to Master as frequently as I can; for his pleasure and sexual needs.
Master’s needs are a priority and I will strive to ensure his desires are met in an appropriate and timely manner.
I shall work hard towards learning and making habit the rules that Master sets out for me.
I promise to work hard at improving my home care so that Master’s home is always inviting for surprise guests and our comfort.
Try It
Take a moment today to try and write a few code statements of your own. They don’t have to be perfect, this is a rough draft. Then when you have it all perfected, add this to your Submissive Training Resume.
photo by Hamed Saber
Want more? Get my free report "Wants and Needs: How to Get What You Need and Ask For What You Want"...
My name is lunaKM and I’m a full-time submissive in a D/s relationship. I am webslut to 
Luna, Thank-you so much for sharing your code of ethics As a new sub I am already struggling with a few of your items mentioned and I think writing it down this way will help to keep me focused.It will remind me gently what I strive for when I write out my own code of ethics! What a great idea ! Thanks.Muse
I’m so glad you liked it and if you decide to share yours sometime I’d love to see it.
luna, I have been serving my Master for many years now and never stopped to think to develop this code. I did this a couple of weeks ago and presented it to my Master. He was thrilled and touched. Thank you for posting this and putting it into my mind to even consider it. At first, I thought it would be hard, but once I got going I realized I had an entire ‘uwritten’ code that I already lived by…and this was just the final expression of it.
Thank you!
By embodying “yes” to her master, the true Submissive enters every aspect of his mind, because yes brings him to express his desires, down to the smallest detail and you will know that, though he possesses you, you possess him by allowing him to possess you–you embody the fulfillment of all his desires and you know what all of them are–unlike inferior, non-submissive women.
Good day-
I’m a newbie and I have found a Dom (or he has found me) and I’m pleased that he took me into his consideration. I found the Code of Ethics wonderful and will develop some for myself. This is a wonderful site and I’m looking forward to building with you all.
DLG
I think I need to do this for myself….. I have a hard time focusing and think writing down my “codes” might help me. I need something to help me after 12 years with my Master I still feel like I do everything wrong….
Pet´s last blog ..Cant get it together so