Email
RSS
The Roundtable: Chastity
November 20, 2009 by lunaKM [553 views]
Loading ...
Gather around the table everyone, I’d like to learn about something I don’t know a lot about. I welcome you to add your thoughts and comments to this post and if you feel an inclination, send me a guest post letting me know what you think.
This month I’d like to talk about chastity. If you have any opinions or thoughts on the subject I’d love to see them in the comments! Here’s some questions to get you started:
- Do you participate in chastity?
- What is the longest time you have gone without an orgasm?
- Do you wear a physical device? What does it look like?
- Is orgasm control part of chastity?
- How do you feel in chastity?
- Is it easier for men or for women to be in chastity? (The physical devices or the activity, your choice)
- What does chastity teach you about submission?
- For those not currently in chastity, would you consider going into chastity? Why, why not?
- What is the biggest taboo surrounding chastity?
2 Comments
Filed under Roundtable Discussions
Copyright © Submissive Guide. 2008-2010. All full copyright rights are reserved by SubmissiveGuide.com Other bloggers and journalists are allowed to excerpt and link to posts (as is common with bloggers,) as full credit/attribution is given to SubmissiveGuide.com.
Join over 1062 Submissive Guide subscribers and get your daily fix of updates...
Don't Miss Another Post! You can unsubscribe at any time You can also subscribe to Submissive Guide by RSS: | What Next? |
Loading ...
Hmmm it seems like a very general term to me. Chastity is something we play at for short durations (like 24 hours). Sometimes Master orders me to masturbate, without having an orgasm. I do not like this at all, and of all the things I do for Him, this is the one thing that makes me consider disobedience. I REALLY have to focus on the praise He will give me for obeying Him, and the disappointment I would cause if I did not. I also have to consider my own guilt when those little voices crop up of “I could get away with it, He’d never know.” I know I would eventually have to come clean, and feel doubly bad for both disobeying and for hiding it. Not worth the short term reward to go through that…
I have a lifetime of enjoying orgasms and pleasure, and teasing is not something I do to myself. He only asks me to do this masturbation without orgasm when He plans to be there that evening to resolve my frustration and thankfully He does not ask this of me often, nor does He with hold orgasms from me during sex. He may request that I delay it, which He enjoys, and He enjoys having me orgasm on command for Him, but usually I get to enjoy between 3-8 orgasms every time we make love, so holding off for 2 minutes is okay.
If the context of our relationship turned to more prolonged chastity, i.e. days or weeks, I don’t think I would be happy. Orgasms release a great deal of tension for me, tension that exacerbates neck and shoulder pain, which cause tension headaches for me among other things, not to mention spiritual and psychic energy build up. Master knows these things about me, and would not want to cause me distress in these ways. I think it would be irresponsible of Him to ask me to do so.
As far as it being easier for men or women, I don’t know. I know some men that can’t get through the day without masturbating several times, others that could go without it for weeks. I know women of each category as well, and have known several that don’t masturbate at all (and are generally pretty bitchy, LOL). I think it’s more related to the individual, their sex drive, and their general comfort with masturbation.
Do you participate in chastity?
yes, but without a device
What is the longest time you have gone without an orgasm?
uh… I can go as long as I want. At the moment I’m constantly chaste.
Do you wear a physical device? What does it look like?
Had purchased a CB-6000, but i stopped using it. It is only a matter of the state of mind, honestly. If you have overcome the initial chastity phase, you can endure as long as you want without any discomfort or damage. Male chastity belts are more like cages, where the genitals are restricted from growth or hygiene. The female ones are like steel underpants, with chains or a rear cable.
Is orgasm control part of chastity?
Indeed. Everything else is joy and useless.
How do you feel in chastity?
Not worse than with sex… not much XD
Is it easier for men or for women to be in chastity?
It mainly is a matter of mind, not a question of your sex. But since I’ve seen the belts for women ( e.g. http://tollyboy.com/ , http://www.neosteel.de, http://www.my-steel.de/ ) I would suspect the total belts for women are more difficult to wear. But the development has made great progress, bodily functions and hygiene are much easier IMHO. I’ve only worn a CB-6000 but the rumors about weekly release and hygiene are not a major concern.
What does chastity teach you about submission?
Hmmmm… the fact that you completely disown a part of your body… well, the conclusion is simple XD
For those not currently in chastity, would you consider going into chastity?
I would never let a person control that aspect of my life ( simply because i am NOT submissive and can control my urges ). You have to take good care about who will receive this very valuable present. And, remember ( especially with chastity ): Be careful what you wish for, it could become reality!
Why, why not?
In a master/slave situation a belt can be an exciting enrichment, but to wear a belt 24/7 is a big challenge.
I would conclude: If you have reason to wear one, no matter how long, there will be a way to achieve it :)
What is the biggest taboo surrounding chastity?
That the devices are not in a wide use anymore. Nowadays, the male chastity makes a growing sector in chastity, partly because of the growing submissive fraction among men ( femdom and the wish to completely serve a female, -> wimps ) and because their devices are cheaper and easier to wear than female belts ( CB-2/6000 and other cages are just an example ).