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lunaKM has been a full-time slave in an M/s relationship for over 10 years. She is the founder and editor of Submissive Guide. Learn more about her here and connect with her on, Twitter, Google+, FetLife.

6 responses to “How to Revive Your Service When Protocol Becomes Boring”

  1. Nixie

    Thank you for reminding me. I have been struggling with something this last month or so.

  2. m

    Thank You, Luna. This post really resonated with me today. Like Nixie, I needed this reminder.

  3. hoffmana8

    I’m having an issue with Protocol. W/we haven’t had much, if any, set. There have been little things, but W/we have been in a relationship for three months. Did I do something wrong?

  4. s

    Thank you for sharing – I’ve been struggling immensely in finding and keeping myself in the mindset I need to be in – we don’t have much (if any) protocol in place… though for me it’s something I need even just minimal protocol, I need his help remembering my place through protocols. — And apparently I –need– to work on the most respectful way to communicate this. :) Thanks for sharing :)

  5. Brenda

    I know this is an old post, but this came in my email today, along with others writings.
    I was very happy to read this because this is the one thing I have been dealing with and trying to work through. I have got to the point where some of the protocol we have in place is a total chore. It feels like another chore added to my already huge list of chores. Being in a 27/7 relationship with a young child has made the other things seem less important, even though they are not. Thankfully Master and I have an amazing relationship that is very open to communication, and we have been talking about this a lot. Its just nice to know that I am not the only one that goes through this. I was feeling very down on myself about feeling this way. Thanks for the sharing. :)

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