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lunaKM has been a full-time slave in an M/s relationship for over 10 years. She is the founder and editor of Submissive Guide. Learn more about her here and connect with her on lunaKM.me, Twitter, Google+, FetLife.

3 responses to “First Meetings Done Safely”

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  2. Nic

    This was mostly good, but I had to laugh at “Don’t play on the first date unless you want to get a reputation…” A reputation for what, exactly? Meeting people from kink sites to -gasp- have kinky sex with them? If the chemistry is there and you WANT to- I say do it. It’s what we’re all here for.

    Seriously though, safe calls and the rest are all important. Make sure people know where you are and who you’re with. Always.

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