Every so often I want to open up the blog for you to share and teach me on a topic that I don’t know a lot about. This is your chance to teach me and the other readers of this blog. I encourage you to comment, subscribe to the comments and keep coming back to add more insights.
This month I’d like to discuss D/s or BDSM with kids in the home. This isn’t saying how to do these things while the kids are in the next room, but how do you balance your power exchange and play plans around your commitment to your children and home life?
- What considerations do you have to have in place to keep kids from finding out too soon?
- Do you play while the children are at home, how do you prevent them from finding out
- How do you change some of your rules when children are present?
- Do you have any unique explanations that you have given kids when they ask about certain relationship aspects? (Like why you always call him Sir or only sit on the floor, for example)
- What are your thoughts about being more open about your relationship to your children. Is there an age where they can start to accept your roles?
- Anything else you’d like to add?
kaya wrote a really good post a long while ago about her kids finding some of their toys. I’d recommend you read it and comment. Just remember to come back here!
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Ok, while we are not as into this as I’m sure many here are (or as much as I would like to be) I’m going to jump in and start.
My husband works nights, so during the school year afternoon is our playtime. We can do whatever, be as loud as we want, cause no one else is home.
Then summer comes, and we can only do anything the nights he’s off, and then we don’t really do anything other than “regular” sex cause of the noise factor and such.
My toys are in a wooden box next to the bed, so far it’s not a concern, she doesn’t really nose around things that aren’t her’s, but it’s something I’m sure we’ll have to think about as she gets older. I do also keep my books tucked away in my bedroom cause she is a reader, and if put in our family library, she would pick them up eventually. (Especially the Beauty Trilogy, she’s into princesses)
Anyway, I look forward to reading what others have to say.
We do some light play with the kiddos downstairs, but we don’t get crazy unless they are at the grandparents for the weekend. It’s usually about once a month. We would both like it more often but it just isn’t an option right now.