Comments on: Am I Normal? Exploring Normalcy in BDSM Relationships

By: AngelPet

AngelPet — Sat, 10 Apr 2010 17:39:07 +0000

I never though I was normal when I started into the lifestyle .. I never event thought about what was normal vs not normal … then again never understood “normal” since I never considered myself to be that from as early as I can remember.

Being submissive to be is as natural as being a dominant, two sides of the same coin that one just is without thought.
AngelPet´s last blog ..NormansAngelPet: feeling that itch to get out and about, but stuck inside doing house work without my Owner around to talk with or to, sighs I miss him

By: Darkangel6769

Darkangel6769 — Mon, 17 Aug 2009 23:09:37 +0000

hi,
This is my very first time here and found the article very useful, after many years together and a long forgotten sex life, i realised one day that i have major self control issues and was wound up tighter than anything i can describe here and wonder how my wonderfull husband stayed with me. Realising this has lead to us renewing the relationship and since telling him what was wrong, he approached me after i struggled to get free abd told me that he really liked it. A lot of talking later we decided that master and slve suited us best and since then well our sex life is more that of a 18 year old than a 40 year old. I finally feel free and feel i can give myself to him, mind, body and soul.
We still have a few is this normal issues and this article has definatly helped put my mind at rest.
Thank you.
The happy slave
Claire. (darkangel6769)

By: Aimee

Aimee — Sat, 01 Aug 2009 22:40:23 +0000

Thank you so much for the artical. I have had submissive sexual fantasies since my early twenties, I just turned 31. I found someone on-line recently while looking for a fling that caught my attention. He was open about his desire to dominate. We have been talking and we have very similar “wants” and “no into” lists. I almost broke things off affraid of being abnormal or the feeling I was getting of wanting to go deeper. This article has help to give me courage to continue exploring.

Thanks to the author!

By: kittenpup

kittenpup — Thu, 30 Apr 2009 00:27:55 +0000

*smiles* very well written :) i don’t even want to consider where i’d be if i wasn’t willing to explore and try new things..probably living a boring life with a boring job and boring friends lol

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