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9 responses to “Start Here: Don’t Begin Exploring BDSM Until You’ve Read the Basics”

  1. Delores

    Thank you for giving out the basics of BDSM, because there is a lot that I do not know and I want to learn as much as I can

  2. Michael

    I haven’t explored enough into the scene to Fi d a female partner willing to be a top. I tried it with my best friend and she seems to like it but only when she wants something… and that’s fine for the 30 min or so. But, honestly I would like to have a relationship with a mistress where she and I will grow together. It may sound as if I want to be in control; but I do not. I wanna experience the feeling of control!!!! In which a she has control over me.

  3. Amanda

    My Dom says that it’s all about his wants, lusts, desires, needs THAT IT’S ALL ABOUT MAKING HIM HAPPY but as a sub I have needs too and I thought that the lifestyle is about both of us being Happy and that both of our needs being met even with my submission to Him ? My needs are just as important as His needs correct or am I all wrong here plz help me better understand. ..

  4. Maki

    My dom and I just met in fb. He never pleases my needs. He’s very demanding and he wants me to always send him my nude pics when he wouldn’t send his. He tells me to trust him at all times, but I still have doubts.. He says he loves me, but I don’t think it’s true..

  5. izzy nesh

    hi thinking about it bdsm is it safe for me being new to it

  6. SDC_denzeltasira

    Well, I think that I just found my sub….She never spoke out her fantasy. And I think you should submit yourself to someone that understand your need and provides the necessary energy that ressonates with you. I think in any form of relationship its not just about give or just take…Its about mutual understanding… To continue my story, I appriciated that she spoke out her fantasy with me.. We agreed upon a safe word.. and it started… It was so nice. So for all those first timers.. In any relation, what ever you do…Your mind will go to new levels when you respect each others needs etc.

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